You've probably encountered a situation when, instead of discussing common topics in a video chat, your interlocutor starts making compliments. A feeling of embarrassment or even constraint, or even panic arises: how not to violate the boundaries of politeness and at the same time maintain your dignity, further interest in communication and active participation in the dialogue? Do not forget about the huge distance and anonymity, which further complicates the situation.

First of all, it is important to understand that the intention of the party making a compliment can be different - it can be either an attempt to win your sympathy, or just politeness in communication. Therefore, the main approach should be related to the interpretation of the message of your interlocutor.

If you suspect that a person is simply being nice and complimenting everyone, accept it favorably, support the conversation, demonstrate your appreciation with words, but do not forget about the boundaries that cannot be crossed. If you feel that compliments are part of a strategy to win your sympathy, and you are not ready for such a turn of events, it is better to immediately clarify the situation, showing your position honestly and tactfully.

Be that as it may, remember the following: you do not need to respond to a compliment at all if it embarrasses you or puts you in an awkward position. Sometimes it is enough to remain silent, and sometimes - to politely change the conversation. But even if you really are intolerant of any compliments, try to remain correct and polite - this is the most important condition for any online communication.

And remember, gradually you will develop your own tactics of conducting conversations, as well as ways of responding to compliments, which will help you feel more confident in any situation.